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A look back at 2022

January

Another year is ending, which means it’s time for our annual news- and photo-laden retrospective blog post. As usual, we emphasize the fun things we did and our photos, without totally ignoring how our work went.

We started the year with a short trip to what has become our favorite Airbnb in Shawnee, PA, near the Delaware Water Gap, for our 22nd wedding anniversary. We had a lovely time, eating and drinking well, seeing some nature, and hanging out with our friends Sierra and Jacob, who brought along a double Bananagrams game with which we had some epic games, as well a fantastic pie they made.

Buttermilk Falls January 2022
Hidden Lake, January 7
Marianne on January 6 in our Airbnb enjoying house-made noodles and saki from a local brewery.

During this trip, despite being (as we thought) very careful and being up-to-date with vaccines and boosters, we picked up COVID infections. It disrupted the start of classes for both of us, but we had a relatively easy time with it and recovered completely.

February

On February 11, we took advantage of our maximum level of COVID immunity, after all the vaccinations and our infection, to have a really lovely dinner at Elements restaurant in Princeton, to celebrate Valentine’s Day. A multi-course tasting dinner complete with wine pairing.

Marianne at Elements, February 11

During the last weekend of February, we stayed at and Airbnb in New Hope where we shared a lovely dinner out with Charlie and Nicki. Of course, that is when Russia invaded Ukraine, and we ended up monitoring the news and being edgy for Sunday and Monday — which is one quadrillionth or less of the disruption Ukrainian lives had to absorb.

March

March started with the extremely successful Lyric Fest concert “Yiddishe Nightingale“, which we caught at the Academy of Vocal Arts on March 2. This concert came about from an idea that our dear friends Mike and Eva Leeds had, and was generously supported by them. The concert drew a large crowd in all performances and was great fun and quite an education for the two of us.

As has been the case for several years now, our spring breaks did not coincide. Nevertheless, we did get a weekend in an Airbnb in Perkasie, joined by Suzanne and Kevin and Tallulah, their sweet and happy dog (this Airbnb was super dog-friendly). Here are Suzanne, Kevin, and Marianne getting ready for a game of Double Bananagrams (courtesy of Sierra and Jacob) with me. Suzanne and Kevin braved a scary snowstorm to join us there!

Suzanne, Kevin, Marianne on March 12

The day after the games, we went for a wine tasting at the Trolley Barn Public Market in Quakertown, on our way back home. Pennsylvania wines are … cute.

April

April had some sweet events for us. There was the Lyric Fest concert “The Song Catcher” on April 9th, which presented folk songs reimagined by contemporary composers. Before it, we had a great lunch at Cuba Libre, and after it we were chaperones (!) for the Arcadia U Cotillion at the Warwick Hotel in Center City having been asked by one of M’s star students.

On the 15th, we had the great good luck to be joined by our dear friend Jill for drinks at Jean Georges, in the new Four Seasons Hotel in Philadelphia and then onto dinner at The Love with her son Owen. Twilight in the 60th floor lobby was quite a sight!

Marianne, D, Jill at the Four Season lobby (on the 60th floor)
View of Philadelphia from the 60th floor of the Four Seasons, with Logan Circle as the focal point (happy for the black dots on the glass, which save birds from deadly collisions with the glass panes, even as they make photos…interesting)

In mid-April, we also got our second COVID vaccine boosters. We had mild reactions to the shots, as on the previous occasions.

Near the end of April, M hosted a reunion “girls’ weekend” in the city for a few of her high school classmates, a.k.a., the Valley Girls. This was so much fun gossiping about what happened to classmates and doing an impromptu walking tour of Philadelphia that they organized another one for November.

For D, the highlight of the end of the month came at his department’s annual awards luncheon, where he was awarded the best research paper award.

D’s trophy for the best research paper award

May

May brought the end of the semesters for both of us and the start of lighter times. Another semester ended well for us (although D was not thrilled by how teaching a section of “Econ 101” students, for the first time in some years, went—students seemed to have forgotten how to be students and to be mostly apathetic and clueless as to what it means to study). Marianne was the mace bearer at Arcadia University’s graduation, for the first time (and had to lead the procession off the field in double-time due to a tornado warning).

Our young friends Sierra and Jacob had a party at Jacob’s parents’ house to celebrate their first wedding anniversary as a kind of delayed post-Covid celebration of their wedding and Jacob’s graduation from medical school. It was lovely to take part in the celebration and meet some of their friends we had been hearing about over the years, as well as catch up with both their parents. And all that yummy food!

We had a brief trip to Ocean City, NJ, where we were able to grab some nice bird photos, amid socializing with M’s colleagues and relaxing a bit.

Bird photo
Bird photo in Ocean City, May 22

D’s brother Kostas visited the U.S. near the end of the month, and we were able to catch up with him a couple of times in NJ.

Marianne, Kostas, Dimitrios in Princeton after lunch
Marianne, Kostas, Dimitrios in Princeton after lunch at Mediterra on May 27

June

We started June with a week in Germantown, NY, where we stayed in a favorite Airbnb with Eileen. We made several side trips and excursions. Here we are at the Vintage Vibe market in Rhinebeck:

Eileen, Marianne, and Dimitrios at the Vibe urban market, June 4
Eileen, Marianne, and Dimitrios at the Vintage Vibe urban market, June 4

After the Vintage Vibe market we visited a nearby distillery, from where we simply must commemorate the bloody Mary drinks Eileen is smiling about in the next picture; each had a veritable garden of greenery on top.

Eileen with the amazing (and very spicy) bloody Mary cocktails, June 4

We visited a few more interesting places, including Poets’ Walk, and had the chance to have dinner a couple of times with Anthony and Barbara, whose country house is only about a mile and a half down the road from our Airbnb. On the last full day of the trip, we visited Montgomery Place and its gardens. Eileen snapped this nice photo of us:

Eileen’s photo of us at Montgomery Place, June 7

After we came back home, we had several lovely social events before we ran out of June days. One was a bourbon tasting in our gazebo with a colleague of M’s and his wife. We learned quite a bit from them about bourbons and got pleasantly tipsy.

We also attended a gala fundraising event for the Wilma Theatre, that Mike and Eva had generously invited us to. The event started at the Kimmel Center, continued across the street at the Wilma, and concluded with an outdoor cast party at the lush and romantic Horticulture Society pop up garden on South St. We had a blast visiting with Mike and Eva, Mike’s brother Ed and his wife Nancy, attending the gala event on the stage of the Wilma, and having delicious food and drink and participating in the bidding to support the theater.

Another fun social event was going to Arcadia University’s campus on a nice Friday afternoon and evening for an outdoor movie showing with dear friends Reiko and Troy. We felt like kids again watching Spiderman and eating movie candy and popcorn provided by M’s HR committee.

With Reiko and Troy at Arcadia U, for an outdoor movie showing, June 24

Two days later, we went to the Jenkins Arboretum and Gardens for Suzanne’s art exhibit opening. We chatted with several friends at the reception, bought some ceramic bowls Suzanne had made (her new direction in art, not that she has stopped painting), and did not miss the opportunity to make photos. It is as usual hard to choose just one photo, but perhaps this one will do.

At Jenkins Arboretum and Gardens, June 26

We ended June with a great dinner at Jean Georges at the Four Seasons hotel in Philadelphia to celebrate Marianne’s birthday (a little early, due to restaurant availability).

Marianne celebrating her birthday a little early at JG in the Four Seasons (on the 60th floor)
Sunset over Philadelphia from the 60th floor of the Four Seasons hotel

July

One cannot have enough birthday celebrations, right? We had another one on the first of July, with Lily joining us, so we could also celebrate her graduation.

Lily and Marianne at LaCroix for a birthday lunch, July 1

This month we made our first trip for brunch to the Yardley Inn. They had a nice big tent for outside seating, which we appreciated a lot. They also had some mighty good cocktails including their specially made YI house bourbon and very good food. After brunch, we went to hang out for a while at Washington Crossing State Park, a bit up the road on the same side of the Delaware River, where D caught this photo of M in a pensive mood.

Marianne at Washington Crossing State Park, July 10

In the middle of the month, we visited Branford, CT, where we stayed at the quaint and luxurious Thimble Islands B&B, which is right on the water. The visit allowed us to visit friends nearby, as well as the Mystic Seaport Museum, and a state park with excellent opportunities to photograph birds. It will take a lot of restraint to post only a few photos from this picturesque trip!

Sail making room at the Mystic Seaport Museum, July 14
M’s photo of timepieces from the Mystic Seaport Museum, July 14
Osprey photographed from right outside our room, July 16
View from our room at the Thimble Islands Bed and Breakfast, July 17

The next photo shows Marianne taking a photo of the Gillette Castle State Park — a remarkable mix of a Disney sensibility with Henry Chapman Mercer’s Fonthill Castle Arts-and-Crafts workmanship in Doylestown complete with a trick bar, an indoor koi pond, and many elaborately carved wooden doors, each one different from the others.

Marianne in front of the Gillette House, July 15.

August

Temple U’s Fall semester started in mid-August, earlier than in all previous years D has taught there. That left us with a narrow window for a seaside vacation to say goodbye to the summer, but we managed just fine, finding an old-style resort called Icona, in New Jersey, on Diamond Beach, a little north of Cape May where we enjoyed relaxing on the beach with lunch service and umbrella set ups.

A selfie we made in front of the Icona resort on Diamond Beach on August 10

Near the end of the month, we went to the annual end-of-summer party at Mike and Eva’s. It was great to catch up with them and their offspring Dan and Melanie with their partners, as well as colleagues from Temple and a Temple PhD alum who teaches locally. A memorable and fun highlight was a traveling Prosecco bar on wheels, the use of which Melanie had won at a fundraiser.

September

With classes underway for both of us, we made a little time for our bivalent COVID boosters mid-month. Fortunately, we had light side effects and our teaching was not disrupted.

We had a lovely visit with Ellen and Jim at Longwood Gardens, with lots of walking and admiring fall colors, the fountain light show, and the special light installation.

With Ellen and Jim at Longwood Gardens, September 24
M’s photo from the fountain light show at Longwood Gardens, September 24

The day after the Longwood Gardens visit, we dropped by Mt. Cuba center nearby, where we had a lovely visit in the lush grounds.

M’s photo from the Mt. Cuba Center on September 25

October

We enjoyed a weekend outing in our favorite Airbnb in the Delaware Water Gap area again (same as where we stayed for our anniversary in January). A highlight of this visit was visiting a number of spectacular waterfalls nearby.

By a waterfall in the Delaware Water Gap area, October 15

Here is a photo of Hidden Lake from October 16 — compare with the second photo above in the January paragraph.

Hidden Lake, PA, October 16

We timed this trip to see some Fall foliage, and we were not disappointed. Tempting as it is to add a dozen more photos now, we will only add one more.

M’s photo of Hidden Lake, October 16

The end of October took us to Long Island for a memorial mass and celebration dinner for a dear family friend. The dinner and the company more than made up for the extra long trip to New York on a Saturday afternoon via the Rockaways and with a nail stuck in our tire. Brunch the next day with my nephew and his family while the tire was being repaired.

November

We made another short trip to Washington Crossing State Park. It’s nice to see as we’re putting this long blog post together, that we managed to make at least one trip every month, even as we eschewed airports and planes.

M at Washington Crossing State Park, November 12

The next day, the 13th, we attended Lyric Fest’s concert A Singer’s Singer, a biography in music of Winnaretta Singer, a remarkable heiress of the Singer sewing machine fortune who became a major sponsor of art song in Paris in the beginning of the 20th Century. We loved the concert so much we regretted not having gone to its first performance on the 12th, which would have allowed us to see it again!

The following weekend, during a rare November heat wave, Marianne made the trek to Port Jefferson, Long Island via trains for a second gathering of the Valley Girls. The festivities included wine tasting, an art museum, a farmer’s market, a Viking market, and a dune hike. Hilarity ensued.

We celebrated Thanksgiving at Suzanne and Kevin’s. It was a small, cozy, lovely gathering, and we met some nice new people.

The day after we had a short visit by Sierra and Jacob, for dinner and a few energetic rounds of Sweet Existence, a game based on the Strange Planet comic series.

M paid a visit to Dominique and family for what has become the traditional Leftovers meal on Saturday, and on Sunday we had brunch with our friend Emina, formerly a PhD advisee of D’s.

December

Another Fall semester came to a successful conclusion for both of us. On the 13th, we visited Center City on a whim to see the light show at City Hall and look at the Christmas Market, after which we had a nice dinner at Estia.

The next day we went to a movie house, for the first time since the pandemic started, to see a matinee screening of the Metropolitan Opera’s production of The Hours, joined by Suzanne and Kevin. The opera was very good, in every respect–visual, acting, vocal, staging, story–and then we capped a lovely day with a Mexican dinner at a local favorite of hours, Tamarindos.

D was lucky enough to be able to submit grades as early as the 12th (payoff for the unusually early start of Temple’s Fall semester), but M was only able to submit grades 10 days later. However, we had a nice time shopping for presents and decorating and it never felt completely hectic to do so.

On the 16th we drove up to Long Island for grand-niece Caterina’s sweet 16 party. It was nice to catch up with M’s family and some friends we hadn’t seen in years. We also came away with the following photo, taken by Dominique, which makes us smile (the party theme was the 1950s):

M and D at the Sweet 16 party, December 16

We were lucky to not be affected by the bad winter storm that hit most of the United States over Christmas, never losing power. On Christmas day, we celebrated in a cozy gathering at Suzanne and Kevin’s after a Skype video call with D’s family in Greece.

Patient readers, thank you for reading this gigantic post. We hope you enjoyed this account of how our 2022 was and we wish you a healthy, happy, and peaceful 2023.

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A look back at 2020

Bah, humbug, you say? Granted, this was not the year anybody wanted, with a raging pandemic causing and exposing so many problems around the world. Yet here we are, M and D, your friends with the (normally) once-a-year blog update, carried to the end of the year in good health and decent spirits, thanks in no small part to our families and friends who have kept us connected, even if mostly via video conferencing.

The year started for us with our fantastic trip to Sweden. We have already written a post about that, so in this post we will update you on the rest of our year.

January

January 10th onwards, that is, since we returned from Sweden on the 9th. Right before classes started we had a nice opportunity to catch up in Philadelphia with our friend Sierra, D’s former student who is now a PhD student at the other end of Pennsylvania, which makes getting a chance to see her a rare, happy occasion. D was keen to wear his Christmas gift shirt from M for the occasion:

Both M and D started teaching as usual in January, which was the last teaching-related activity that went as usual in this most surprising and upsetting year.

February

On February 2nd, we had a nice gathering at home to celebrate D’s birthday a little late. It would be the last time we could have many people in our house for an unforeseeable length of time.

The middle of February found us visiting Longwood Gardens for their annual orchid exhibit, which was beautiful as ever and gave us plenty of good photo opportunities.

March

This was the month in which the pandemic’s effects started to be felt in our area. On March 11, Temple University announced a sudden shift to online instruction for the rest of the semester as of March 16. D had one more chance to meet face-to-face with his students on March 12, and then grabbed books and papers from his office and set up office at home. Arcadia University decided to switch to online instruction at the same time, but gave faculty and students a few days off to get ready. M also got books and papers from her office and we became prisoners of Zoom for our teaching for the rest of the year. Like so many other people, we did some last-minute buying at the time, with March 16 still being memorable as the last day we went to the local supermarket.

Lots and lots of online purchases were to ensue, not only for food but also for wine and spirits (and chocolate and chips), throughout the rest of the year. It had somehow escaped our notice until then that Pennsylvania had already in the pre-pandemic times allowed the shipping of wine from other US states, so now that we figured it out, we quickly became members of two wine clubs. As for spirits, it was legal to order for delivery from Pennsylvania-based distilleries, so we started doing that too. Eventually, we also found restaurants that were selling cocktails together with dinners for take out.

We also bought a bunch of gift certificates to support favorite restaurants and a local bookstore, and became members of Bookshop.org to be able to buy some books online while supporting indie bookstores.

During March and April, we also had a series of online video visits with friends and family, which were wonderful, if inadequate, substitutes for face-to-face visits.

To stay in sort-of-acceptable physical state, we started (almost-) daily walks, initially around the neighborhood, staying far away from others, as we should. In the first couple of weeks of the lockdown, neighbors wrote inspirational messages with chalk on the sidewalks and street pavement.

April

On the first Sunday of April, M used instructions from New York Times to make some masks; it was the first of at least two such sessions. The results look sharp:

M’s masks become popular with our friends and we gave some to them. They also helped M produce them, we should say gratefully, by sending along those metal strips from coffee bean bags that are so handy for limiting the fogging of eyeglasses when embedded into the top of the mask.

During April we also continued watching streaming plays from the National Theatre of London, something we started doing in March, if memory serves.

May

We continued the daily walks and photographed lots of flowers in neighbors’ yards. We did a lot of cooking at home and tried out some cocktail recipes. For an alternative to walking for outdoor exercise/amusement, we got a pickle ball game set that we played with a few times in our back yard. Here is M at it.

Our semesters ended reasonably well, both of us having managed to transition to online instruction without too many problems. It was a big disappointment for us and all our graduating seniors that graduation ceremonies were held in improvised, virtual ways, but there was no escaping the need for it.

June

In anticipation of a subdued celebration of M’s 60th birthday on July 1, with no visitors due to the pandemic, we ordered a Sacher torte online from the Hotel Sacher in Vienna with plenty of lead time, thinking that there might be a long delay in fulfillment and delivery due to the pandemic, but to our surprise it came almost immediately, in early June:

This month was momentous for M professionally speaking, as she became chair of her psychology department. It could not have happened at a more challenging time. She did have good support from her colleagues, though, and as of this writing, everything has gone fine, except for her being constantly busier than ever before.

We also started having visitors, at most two at a time, outdoors at a safe distance. Here are our dear friends Suzanne and Kevin:

A very pleasant activity we were able to resume was visiting the Morris Arboretum.

We can’t forget to mention that all through the summer we were reading several books and websites, as well as attending webinars, on how to prepare for a good hybrid or online-only class, as it looked more and more certain that this would be the way we’d teach in the Fall semester.

July

July month started with a quiet celebration of M’s birthday. On the 18th, we were lucky enough to have clear skies and access to a place with relatively low light pollution to photograph comet Neowise. Here is a photo M made of the comet.

Near the end of the month we spend a few days in Ocean City, NJ, very cautiously, avoiding the boardwalk and stores, where altogether too many people would be seen not caring to wear a mask even if they got near other people.

August

August went by like July, minus a trip to the shore but plus visits from various friends, taking advantage of the warm weather to sit in our back yard, enjoy some food and conversation, and, as was the case with Olena (another friend who’s D’s former student), give us a demonstration of historically accurate broadsword fighting.

The last week of August was also the first week of the Fall semester for D (M started a week later). We were thankful that our desire to teach fully online was accommodated. Temple University did try to start with some in-person classes, but that experiment was short-lived, as COVID-19 cases at Temple started spiking and the university moved all in-person classes online (except a small number of classes that can’t be done online, such as some nursing and medical school classes).

September

Amid the teaching (with its attendant constant making of short videos and grading of online quizzes, really kind of draining), we did continue with our escape routes, like photography, to blow off some steam. The following sunset panorama was a gift from the sky on the 4th of the month.

On the 7th we had a chance to visit the Morris Arboretum again, this time with friends. Here’s a green “fireworks” image from that visit:

We also took a weekend trip to Ocean City again, where we met a small “COVID pod” of friends cautiously in open air and did not visit stores (where it was common to see from the outside customers blithely shopping without masks on) or crowded beaches.

We also added a new destination for our walks, the Churchville Nature Preserve. It is a nice place for a Sunday morning walk:

October

October’s weather did allow some more outdoors visiting with friends. Early in the month we had a visit by Mike and Eva.

We also took advantage of good weather to attend an outdoors family gathering in New Jersey to mark our niece Avery’s first holy communion.

Leaf color this month was good, though we have had it even better in select past years. These two images from Alverthorpe Park in Jenkintown give a taste.

A little later in October, we had the opportunity to visit this park again with our friends Suzanne and Kevin. Here is Suzanne walking alongside M, followed by a photo of M and D taken by Suzanne.

On Halloween weekend, we stayed at an AirBnB in Kennett Square for a couple of nights, to be near Longwood Gardens to visit for the chrysanthemum exhibit. This also allowed us to have a nice stroll in Longwood Gardens with our friends Ellen and Jim, who live nearby. Here is a photo of M with Ellen and Jim and then a photo from our walk in the meadow.

November

Elections were the big starter of the month; this blog is hardly the place to discuss politics, but we did vote in person, wearing both masks and plastic shields over our faces.

Later in November we took some walks in the Pennypack Ecological Restoration Trust. There D was lucky enough one day to capture a photo of a hawk with its lunch in its left talon, waiting to be consumed. This was taken with the regular lens of D’s Fujifilm X-T2 camera. If only Santa’s gift of a long lens for this camera had arrived already!

For Thanksgiving we ordered takeout from one of our favorite restaurants in Princeton, which had a complete Thanksgiving dinner ready to pick up in a box. It felt so very strange to drive to Princeton to get the food and drive right back, without doing any of the usual things we do in that town (buy books, take pictures, buy chocolates, buy clothes), but as mentioned already, we were trying to stay as far away from infection possibilities as we could. Here is M at our Thanksgiving table (just by ourselves, but the weather was good enough to start outside). Sadly, shortly after this photo was taken, we were chased inside the house by a persistent wasp, which also managed to come in after us undetected and sting M (painful, but with no bad allergic reaction, thankfully).

December

December started with a visit to Alverthorpe Park with our friends Reiko, Troy, Jordan, and Cooper. It was D’s first serious attempt to use the long lens Santa brought (very proactive Santa was on this occasion). Here is a sample photo (the goose was a good 30-40 feet away):

Later in December our first fully-online semester of teaching came to an end. Both of us felt that teaching online, especially under duress, instead of by choice, was a very difficult endeavor. Every class takes longer to prepare, you are endlessly making videos and slide sets for class when you are not endlessly grading assignments, the only exam format we felt made sense was open-book — which is very hard to write at the proper level, you are missing face-to-face contact with your students, they miss it too, it’s overall a sad necessity. However, we managed. Most impressively, M managed to reach the conclusion of her first semester as department chair in one piece and with her department functioning well, despite seriously diminished resources.

In the middle of the month we had a snow storm that was followed by several days cold enough for the snow to stay on the ground. We were lucky to be able to take advantage of a little free time that we made for ourselves in the middle of final exams to go to Alverthorpe Park and to the Morris Arboretum to make photos in the snowy conditions. We leave you with a photo of a deer from Alverthorpe Park and a gallery with some photos from the Morris Arboretum, including some from its holiday train display with miniatures of famous Philadelphia buildings made out of wood and other natural materials. Tip: for the gallery: clicking any one of the photos displays bigger version; this is important for some that can only be viewed uncropped in this fashion.

We leave you with the wish that the year 2021 will be massively better than 2020 was. We are so looking forward to being able to hug our friends and family and to visit them indoors without qualms, not to mention going to the opera, concerts, theater, and restaurants and our very own classrooms to teach our students face-to-face!

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2011 in retrospect

M and I are ready to see 2012. The year that’s ending had more than its share of toil and trouble, for us and the world at large.

The year started normally enough. We flew to Colorado on January 2, since I was going to attend professional meetings at which I was to be a member of the interviewing team for my department that was looking to hire a new faculty member in my field. I had a persistent cough that had started just before Christmas (truly persistent; it lasted well into the Spring) and spent the time we had in Golden and Breckenridge, before the actual interviews in Denver, mostly indoors, reading candidate files and trying to not cough too much.

Breckenridge view

M did a few activities involving snow without me, which was fine as I am not a big fan of skiing (bad knees—long story). We did have some very good meals and admired how the Denver airport continued operating during a snow storm so we could leave for home when the interviewing at the economics meetings was over.

We came home to a nasty little surprise, which fortunately did not turn out to be as bad as it could have been. During our absence, the batteries in our thermostat died, which meant that our house was unheated for an undetermined number of days. Indoor temperature was about 39 F at our arrival and the faucets were not working, but luckily the freezing in the pipes had not become bad enough to burst through the pipes. It was a narrow escape.

The next step was to resume normal activities, at least for M, who had to start her regular Spring semester activities at Arcadia U. I was on sabbatical in the Spring; I applied for the sabbatical with some trepidation, because I had the irrational fear, reinforced by friends, that M’s ovarian cancer would recur, just as it first appeared when I had a sabbatical in Spring 2000 (that one was coordinated with M’s sabbatical, and came right after we got married; needless to say, we did not spend it as we had anticipated). Nevertheless, the semester started, M started teaching, using a draft of her book on personality psychology that was nearing the last editing stage, and I started reading stuff on my research project that was supposed to occupy my sabbatical, along with some last-minute editing of a paper that had just gotten accepted at a journal. Oh, and I spent a lot of time on Al Jazeera and Twitter following the Arab Spring uprisings. It’s hard to ignore major historical events happening in front of one’s nose.

My research project was to be joint work with our friend R, who now lives in Belfast. We had plans to visit Belfast during M’s Spring break and had purchased tickets. That’s when, in early March, a CT scan (she had been having those regularly, because her oncologist is eagle-eyed and very, very careful) showed something suspicious, which was corroborated by a blood test. Soon enough, we had cancelled the trip to Belfast, so M could go get a needle biopsy done. This was done in the beginning of her Spring break, and then we immediately went to a fancy B&B in Cape May to at least await the results in something resembling a little vacation. To cut the story short, the result confirmed that this was the second recurrence of M’s cancer.

And so the irrational fears about the sabbatical were validated (surely this is spurious, I know, but knowing brings scant comfort). Now it was time to make plans with the oncologist on how to get this recurrence under control and eventually get our old friend NED back in our house (No Evidence of Disease). While I was able to do some work on my project, which is still in progress right now, it was time to draw the wagons in a circle and fight the cancer with all we had. And we had, and have, a lot, for which we are immensely thankful: excellent doctors and magnificent friends and family. It is no exaggeration to say that we would not have done well at all, at least in terms of sanity, without the love of these wonderful people.

It would be all too easy to go crazy with the details of the chemotherapy and eventual operation. I will leave them in the background, however. M had chemotherapy from late April to late October, with various different drugs (due to a sudden shortage of one of her chemotherapy drugs that happened in mid-summer and necessitated a change, which brought relief from some side effects and introduced others). Throughout, we were determined to not let cancer cancel our plans for as normal a summer as possible. We took short trips to the Atlantic Ocean, had our usual pool parties (even if, in some of them, some of our visitors would stay indoors to visit with M who was dealing with chemotherapy side effects) and took a big house in Ocean City, NJ, where we spent two excellent weeks in the company of wonderful friends. At that time, M had to limit walking and sun exposure due to one of her drugs, but this turned out to be a surpassable problem: all it took was good sun protection and a scooter to let her roll up and down the boardwalk while not overtaxing her blistered feet.

On the OC boardwalk

Oh, by the way, I discovered that playing Angry Birds is good for those interminable hours of waiting for test results or for a chemotherapy infusion to be over. Hence the T shirt.

Ocean City, NJ, July 2011

Meanwhile, she was working on proofreading her book, all 200,000 words of it, with some help from me and friends. As the Fall semester approached, she submitted the final version of the book, completed the Instructor’s Manual in a single month (the book is a textbook) and then proceeded to take medical leave for most of the semester to accommodate the chemotherapy. Do I sound proud of her? I sure hope so, as I am, so very proud. The book was published in early October and we already know of colleges that have adopted it for the Spring semester.

The book is published!

During the Fall, the chemotherapy became more challenging, as M developed an allergic reaction to one of the drugs. It is a drug that she has received a lot over the years and one can only have so much of it over a lifetime. So two of the infusions had to be while she was inpatient, over about 30 hours each time. I can’t say it was fun for us to camp out in the hospital (I always went to her treatments) and yet it gave us the satisfaction of doing what we could to fight the disease.

Once the chemotherapy ended, all indications were that the tumor had shrunk and possibly just a dead shell of its former self. But M’s oncologist did not want to rest on his laurels (richly deserved, as he has already kept M going for a long time, surprising the doctor at Sloan-Kettering whom we have consulted occasionally over the years). He wanted an operation to get the remnants of the tumor out, in case there was still active disease there, of which he was convinced. He performed the operation on December 2, with the help of another surgeon, and it turned out he was right: most of the tumor was dead but there was still active cancer in the middle of it. During the operation the doctors looked around for any other evidence of cancer but did not find any. So NED is in our house again!

Recovery from this surgery has been slow. It was a very extensive operation and it came after many other treatments that had weakened M. Her previous operations, while extensive, had come before chemotherapy and were easier to recover from. However, as the new year approaches, M is feeling better and better and looking forward to teaching her personality course, using her very own textbook.

And with this it is time to say goodbye to 2011 and all its troubles and hello and welcome to 2012, a year, we hope, of health and happiness for all.